Parental
responsibilities when hosting a teen party
or gathering:
• Be a visible host throughout the duration
of the party/gathering by supervising both
inside and outside of your home. Being
"home" but out of sight is the same at not
being home.
• If you become aware of someone at the
party/gathering that is under the influence
of drugs or alcohol, do not allow them to go
home alone or drive. Call their parents.
KNOW the Power of Parents Pledge for
Middle School Parents
What are the
benefits for participating in the “KNOW the Power of Parents” pledge
program?
Names, phone numbers, and addresses of MME and MMW “KNOW” participants
are published in a directory, which encourages parents to network.
When adults join together and take a united stand, they feel more
empowered to “do the right thing,” and are often more effective than
when they act separately.
As your kids mature, they will become increasingly sophisticated in
making plans independently.
Building your own network of parents will help you stay informed.
Parental responsibility when hosting a youth party or gathering:
Confirm with parents who call about the party that alcohol will not be
available nor allowed.
(Parent Tip: Facilitate a comfortable call by offering up this
information before being asked. You may also want to mention media,
i.e., your family position on R-rated movies, video game ratings, and/or
internet monitoring.)
Be a visible host. (Parent Tip: Use small snack dishes and replenish
often!)
Encourage “by invitation only” gatherings so you know who is at your
home.
Call the parents of anyone who appears to be under the influence or is
in possession of illegal substances. (Parent Tip: If it were your child,
wouldn’t you want to know?)
Suggested parental responsibility when your child is invited to an
activity:
Call the adult in charge of the activity to verify the occasion,
location, and that there will be “active” adult supervision.
If the activity seems inappropriate, express your concern, keep your
child home, and seek an alternate activity.
Your job is not to just “trust,” but to “verify” your child’s plans. BE
A PARENT, NOT A PAL!
Names, phone numbers, and addresses of MME and MMW “KNOW” participants
are published in a directory, which encourages parents to network.