I feel awkward calling a parent I don’t know. Any suggestions for how to
initiate a conversation about adult supervision at a teen gathering?
ANSWER:
To confirm that alcohol is not available at teen parties – and that
parents are, Mark Scharenbroich, a local parent and national speaker,
recommends making a “chips call.” The conversation might go something
like this: “Hi, I’m Joe, Sammy’s dad … understand you are hosting a
gathering over there tonight.” (pause) “Are you set to go? Need chips or
anything?” Providing the parents already know about these plans, from
this opener they will likely confirm that they will be home and the
party will be monitored. If you’re the one hosting the party, this is
where you confirm that drinking or smoking won’t be tolerated. Awkward?
Maybe a little, but keep in mind that this is your child, and kids need
to know that you’re both trusting and verifying their information!
